I dated a girl for a short time, but we fell in love. I had planned to take her to a Valentine's dance, but the day of it she broke up with me. I found out about eight months later that she broke up with me because someone called her and told her that I was planning on taking another girl to the dance. I recently found out from one of her best friends that she still thinks about me sometimes and she wishes things could have worked out between us. Her friend has been asking her to call me and talk to me now since we are both single at this moment. He has also asked her several times if she would ever go back out with me, but she keeps avoiding the question and won't answer it at all I would really like to know if she still likes me, and how I can get her back. It's been almost a year since we broke up, and I think about her every night. Please help me. -Lonely In Virginia

Dear Lonely In Virginia,
There are certain times in life when you must do things by yourself. This is one of them. You cannot hope to find out what her interests are with a go-between. You need to suck up and approach her yourself. Tell her how you feel and the truth about what happened. If she's open to it, just start spending time together as friends and hopefully affections will grow and you'll be back together even better than you were before.

With Love,

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