Just needed some advice. My ex whom I love with all my heart wants to keep a relationship with me. He calls and tells me he loves me and still calls me baby. I am not sure what to do. We had a 4 year relationship, and I can't seem to get over him please help!!! -Do I Move Back Or On?

Dear Do I Move Back Or On?,
You need to take a look at the pros and cons of a possible relationship. What were the reasons the relationship ended? Are those things still factors? If you broke up over them once, what makes you think they won't be a problem again in the future? Take an honest look at why you are considering getting back together again. Are you at a lonely time period? Is the break up still fresh? Do you just miss having someone around to hold and talk to? If these are the only reasons, you need to be strong and wait it out for your perfect someone. Don't invest anymore useless time on something that isn't going to go anywhere. On the other hand, if you really feel that the problems have been resolved and you can both come to the new relationship with a clean slate, why not try it out? Go on a few dates, and go very, very slowly. Give yourself a lot of time to make sure this is the right course of action for you. You'll be able to tell if things start to get a little too familiar.

With Love,

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